I think an issue with conversations I have, is how I say things and my mood at the time. My emotions can affect how much I pay attention. Whether I’m self-absorbed at the time. Yes, I have those moments, where I’m thinking of me, but not at the right moments.
Having conversations, I guess I struggle with the how because I can just say things without processing my words. The words and tone come out not how I would have liked. It can be hard to get the other person to understand when I mean.
How I say things and my tone of voice is something I need to be mindful of. If only face-to-face or telephone conversations had a delete button and the time to read over like in a text or a blog post.